Dec 6, 2004

Get gas,
Get going!

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Pleasing activities

I have a habit to please others, even if I have to do something I don't like. This behavior began when I was a teenager and wanted to make my parents happy. Then the consumer group enlarged. First friends around me, then all the people I like and then everyone who by chance have to live in the same space with me. I thought I'd be happy because the surroundings are in peace and happiness too, but lately I found it's very dangerous to please someone I really like. There must be one day that he or she cry out with tears:"You are a good liar!"

In a way, it is true, because I chose to hide my unpleasant feelings and act in a certain way to make them happy. It can't last long. And for the people I really like, we need to be more candid and have more communications since it's a mutual thing.

Today's lesson: Never please anyone I really like. The fact that I'm liking them is enough for a sweet day. If I really have to please someone for practical reasons, that is another case, and that's probably what I wouldn't do.

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