I somehow couldn't help thinking life is somewhat fated. And there are so many things beyond my reach. Maybe the best I can do is just let go and accept what is coming to me? But it doesn't quite work in my yoga class. There are always some "borderline" poses that if I say to myself "I couldn't", I couldn't, and if I say "maybe", I did it sometimes. However, human subjects are more capricious than yoga poses. I don't know if I should just follow Betty's logic and be realistic. She is a lawyer and I was supposed to be one. Oh, life is so sad.